Whether you’re single and looking for answers (or a good time, no judgment) or taken and trying to keep lust alive, your star sign can indicate your best sex match.
Some star signs have it easy when it comes to having great sex. Scorpios, for example, are naturally sensual with wide-ranging interests. Introverted Cancer or aloof Aquarius, however, will need a little more wooing and exploration to find their perfect match. When it comes to sex, complementary opposites often attract, but you can also glean insights into your sexual preferences by understanding your Venus and Mars signs. We asked an astrologer to unpack it all for us.
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An Astrologer Explains How Your Sun Sign Impacts Your Sexual Compatibility
“Your sun sign is your ‘main character’ energy as it rules your identity, essence and how you move through the world,” says astrologer Kristy Gray. Your sun sign will influence your aesthetic preferences, down to the lingerie and lighting you like in the bedroom, and your feelings about confidence, control and intimacy. “If your Sun is in a fire or air sign, for example, you might chase the thrill of newness, flirtation or playful power dynamics,” Gray explains. Meanwhile, for emotionally intense water signs and practical and steady earth signs, unlocking your best sex can take time. “Water and earth signs might crave emotional depth, sensuality, or a sense of safety before they fully surrender to a new partner.”
But astrological dynamics never work in isolation, which is where your Venus and Mars signs come in. While your sun sign reveals your identity and outward energy, your Venus and Mars often tell a much more intriguing story when it comes to desire, explaining why we can surprise ourselves when it comes to what we like in the bedroom.
How Your Venus And Mars Signs Impact Your Sex Life
Venus and Mars are the love and lust duo in your natal chart. Venus rules how we give and receive love, as well as the things we find beautiful and the actions that make us feel desired. “It governs romance, pleasure and attraction, but through a softer lens than our sun sign,” says Gray. “Venus energy is magnetic and receptive, showing us what makes us feel adored.” For example, if you’re looking for a short fling, you may only need to think about your sun and Mars signs. But in a long-term relationship, compatible Venus placements can either amplify or undermine long-term sexual compatibility.
Mars exists at the opposite end of the spectrum. “Mars rules lust, pursuit and raw sexual chemistry,” says Gray. “While Venus might fantasise about the perfect first kiss, Mars is already ripping off your shirt.” Examining your Venus and Mars signs in conjunction with your Sun sign will help you get a complete picture of not just who we like, but how we like to love and be loved and what kind of sexual energy feels electric to us.
Gray uses the example of a Capricorn Sun. “While they might come across all business – disciplined, composed and emotionally reserved – if their Venus is in Sagittarius and their Mars is in Scorpio, we’re suddenly looking at someone who secretly craves depth and expansion. Their Mars placement means they want to be inspired, to chase and to be thrilled, and once they feel safe enough to drop their Scorpion-like armour, that’s when the magic happens.” Essentially? What you see isn’t always what you get.
Below, find your best sex matches based on your astrological placements.
The Best Sex Matches Based On Your Star Sign
Best Sex Match For Aquarius: Leo
Aside from being naturally hesitant, Aquarius is renowned for their electric energy and quirky personalities; they’ll surprise and delight Leo, who brings attitude, bravado and a need for stimulation to the bedroom. One of the best sex pairings on the chart, this match is cosmic.
Best Sex Match For Pisces: Virgo
If you’re a Piscean, you’re likely to be one of the more emotional people in your friendship circle, experiencing high highs and low lows. While levelheaded Virgos might seem like an apposite, their care and attention to detail will make you feel looked after when (and where) you need it most, while their exacting personalities can introduce some playful powerplay into the bedroom (Pisceans are notorious pleasers…).
Best Sex Match For Aries: Scorpio
Scorpios have a well-earned reputation for being the best lovemakers in the cosmos. While their moodiness and unpredictability can be a headache for friends and colleagues, it’s these qualities that give Scorpios a well-earned reputation as the best lovers on the charts. Brooding and intense, they’re sexually imaginative and will make you feel like a star. And why would Aries, one of the most fearless and exuberant signs in the zodiac, settle for anything less?
Best Sex Match For Taurus: Libra
Libra and Taurus share a ruling planet, Venus, which means their connection is steeped in beauty, pleasure and an appreciation for life’s finer things. Both are natural romantics, with an instinct for creating harmony — a trait that extends into the bedroom. Taureans bring steadfast loyalty and commitment, while Librans are always seeking love and balance. Together, Taurus’ devotion provides Libra with the safety to let go, encouraging them to fully explore their sensual side.
Best Sex Match For Gemini: Aquarius
Like Aries, Geminis are known for their exuberance; they crave stimulation, and in bed, they can be unforgettable. For some signs, that energy can feel a little too red-hot to handle. But when Gemini links up with fiery Sagittarius, the chemistry is electric and the sexual intensity goes off the charts.
Best Sex Match For Cancer: Capricorn
For Cancer, intimacy is never just physical — it’s about feeling safe, adored and deeply connected. While Cancerians are gentle and nurturing, they also crave a partner who can ground them and make them feel secure. Enter Capricorn. Though high-strung at times, Capricorns offer a steady, reliable presence that allows Cancer to fully open up emotionally and sexually. With Capricorn, Cancer feels protected enough to let their sensual side flourish, turning what begins as a warm, loving bond into deeply passionate sex.
Best Sex Match For Leo: Aquarius
Sometimes bold, brazen Leos need to let their manes down, ground themselves, and venture into new territory. With inventive Aquarius as their guide, they’re encouraged to experiment — and the result is a world of unexpected pleasure.
Best Sex Match For Virgo: Pisces
Virgo, sis, you need to relax a little. Even you know that you’re one of the most rigid and high-strung signs of the bunch, so enjoying sex with an inventive, chilled-out Pisces would do you (and your libido) a world of good.
Best Sex Match For Libra: Taurus
Other signs envy Libra for their carefree, experimental natures (and willingness to try pretty much everything). They need strength and openness in their sex lives, and a bold Taurus partner will likely provide just that.
Best Sex Match For Scorpio: Aries
Scorpio has the reputation of being the most sensual sign, and raw, unapologetic Aries is the sign best placed to use Scorpios incomparable skills to their best potential. Meanwhile, pleasing demanding Aries will only fuel Scorpios competitive fire.
Best Sex Match For Sagittarius: Gemini
You’ll be hard-pressed to find a more exuberant sign than Sagittarius; a character trait that definitely translates to their bedroom skills. Paging all powerful, bold Geminis, because this one’s a keeper.
Best Sex Match For Capricorn: Cancer
If you’re a Capricorn, you’ll know you can run a little high-strung at times. That’s why the tender, grounding love of a Cancer is such a perfect match. Their loyalty and devotion create a space where you can finally exhale — and when you do, the sex is nothing short of incredible.
